Why I Still Follow Jesus

Why do I still follow Jesus Christ? 

For me, it comes down to purpose—a call that God has woven into my life. Jesus didn’t just ask His first disciples to drop their nets and believe a set of ideas; He invited them into something bigger: “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men” (Matthew 4:19). That same invitation echoes today. We’re made for good works (Ephesians 2:10), not just to hold to a set of doctrines and beliefs, but to actually live those truths. In other words, following Jesus isn’t about checking off a list of doctrines—it’s about joining a movement that changes the world, through the simplest acts of love (Matthew 25:31-46).

Of course, plenty of Christians fall short of this calling, but that doesn’t make the calling invalid. Rather, it reminds us that we need help in living this calling out in our lives. As followers of Jesus, we’re meant to bring light to our families, communities, and nations. The Church, at its best, is God’s love in action.

The purpose I have as a follower of Jesus depends on two important choices. It depends on my choice to be faithful to King Jesus in every area of my life. I can only live this calling out if I am faithful. The second choice is the choice to love. Jesus taught that the most important commandment is to love: to love God and to love people. If I am not going to love, then it is impossible for me to live out the purpose of my life.

Now, compare that to what I’ll call the “evangelical atheist.” Their message urges people to abandon belief in God—but what’s the replacement? Do they genuinely think a world without God would be better? If so, where’s the proof? History doesn’t exactly back them up. And when they reject the source of goodness and love, what’s left to inspire kindness or sacrifice?

That’s not to say atheists can’t be moral or altruistic—many are. But they lack a foundation to call others to a life that seeks to make this world a better place. Without an absolute moral standard, they rely on shifting personal or cultural ideals, which is shaky ground when human nature often prioritizes self-interest over the suffering of others. Atheism critiques but doesn’t construct; it deconstructs faith yet offers no compelling alternative that can inspire, unite, or transform people and culture.

Faith in Jesus is not just about our self-interest. It calls us to something greater. The New Testament teachings this truth over and over again—Jesus commands us to love God and others (Matthew 22:34-40), Paul urges us to serve selflessly (Romans 12, Galatians 6, Ephesians 2:10), James reminds us that faith without works is dead (James 1:27), Peter exhorts us to bless others (1 Peter 3:9), and John emphasizes love in action (1 John 3:16-18). Disciples of Jesus are not just encouraged to love—we’re expected to. It’s central to our calling.

What’s amazing is how this call to love is for everyone. No one is incapable of loving. If morality were merely a personal construct, we’d have an innumerable number of ideas about what is right and wrong —forcing everyone to champion the causes they believe to be most important, whether climate change, poverty, or global suffering. That’s a recipe for burnout and division, especially since we cannot agree on what’s most important.

Christianity changes that. God sets a moral standard, calls us to love Him and others, and then gives us the freedom to bring our unique gifts to the table. The metaphor of being the Body of Christ nails it (Romans 12:3-5, 1 Corinthians 12:12-31)—we are different parts of the body with distinct roles (Romans 12:6-8, 1 Peter 4:7-11). God’s plan is a Church full of individuals, each equipped to tackle the world’s brokenness in their own way.

 None of us can meet the world’s brokenness on our own, but when we work together we can make a difference.

So, I follow Jesus—doubts and all—because this call isn’t just about my personal relationship with Jesus; it’s about God’s people working together to influence the world. It’s about serving those around me and carrying God’s love into the world, all the while partnering with others. In living it out the calling to love and serve, I discover the life I was made for. And honestly? I want others to find that life too.

Lessons from the King: Loving Your Enemies

 

In his book After You Believe, N.T. Wright shares this thought: “When you’re suddenly put to the test and don’t have time to think about how you’re coming across, your real nature will come out. That’s why character needs to go all the way through: Whatever fills you will spill out.” (p. 28).

This idea captures the heart of Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 5:38-48. In this section of the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus teaches that there is more than just surface-level obedience—beyond simply avoiding evil. He calls us to live with radical grace and love that reveals the heart of God. Loving our enemies isn’t just an ideal; it’s the evidence of a transformed heart, a life shaped by the character of the King.

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The Call to Grace Over Retaliation

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you, do not resist an evil person.” (Matthew 5:38-39)

The law of retribution—“an eye for an eye”—was meant to prevent personal revenge and promote justice. However, Jesus introduces a new way: the way of grace. Instead of seeking vengeance, He calls us to respond with patience, generosity, and love.

Consider His examples:

• Turning the other cheek (v. 39) – In the ancient world, a slap was an insult more than a physical assault. Kingdom citizens are called to absorb the insult rather than retaliate.

• Giving beyond what is required (v. 40) – The poor had little, yet Jesus tells them to give even their cloak if sued. This radical generosity defies worldly wisdom.

• Going the extra mile (v. 41) – Under Roman law, Jews were required to carry a soldier’s pack for one mile. Jesus challenges them to double it—choosing service over resentment.

• Giving generously (v. 42) – Even in hardship, we are to be open-handed, trusting God’s provision.

Paul echoes this in Romans 12:14-21, urging believers to overcome evil with good. True justice isn’t found in revenge, but in reflecting the goodness of God in a broken world.

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The Call to Love Over Hate

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” (Matthew 5:43-44)

The Pharisees had twisted the law’s command to love their neighbors into permission to hate their enemies. But Jesus reveals the true intent of God’s heart: love is not limited by borders, race, or even morality. God sends rain on both the righteous and the wicked. His love extends to all—and ours must too.

What does loving an enemy look like?

• Love actively (v. 44) – Show kindness to those who oppose you.

• Pray for them (v. 44) – Intercede for those who mistreat you, asking for God’s mercy on their lives.

• Reflect God’s character (v. 45) – As God’s children, we are called to mirror His indiscriminate grace.

This isn’t easy. It’s much simpler to ignore those who hurt us, to justify our distance by saying we don’t “hate” them. But love calls for more. It requires interaction, kindness, and a willingness to extend mercy even when it isn’t deserved.

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The Call to Christlike Perfection

“Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” (Matthew 5:48)

Jesus isn’t calling us to sinless perfection, but to completeness—to a maturity that reflects God’s character. True righteousness isn’t about checking the right religious boxes. It’s about a heart transformed by God’s love.

So where do we start?

• Trust God for justice – We don’t have to seek revenge; we can trust Him to make things right.

• Overcome evil with good – Through generosity, kindness, and forgiveness, we push back the darkness.

• Love even when it’s hard – Because that’s what God has done for us.

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The Challenge

This week, take a step toward radical grace:

• Show compassion—make a meal for someone, volunteer, or donate to a charity.

• Pray for someone who has wronged you.

Loving our enemies isn’t just about them—it’s about us. It’s about becoming the kind of people who reflect the heart of God. And when we do, we don’t just avoid sin—we become the light of the world.

May we be a people who overcome evil with good, not because it’s easy, but because it’s who we are in Christ.

Encountering God: The Foundation of Christian Identity and Community

 “As Christians we assert that religious experience — an encounter with the divine — is foundational to our self-identity. According to the biblical tradition, the goal of the human-divine encounter is the establishment of a community of people who stand in covenant with God.”

Stanley Grenz, Theology for the Community of God (p. 7)

Created for Community

God created human beings to be relational and social. This is why the very first thing God declares as "not good" in Creation is the loneliness of man. Adam had a relationship with God and spent time with animals, yet a key part of his life was missing: a relationship with another human. The creation of Eve was not just about marriage; it was about ensuring the presence of people throughout history. You and I were created for community.

A Relational God

The Bible teaches us that God is a relational God. He is not a distant deity who takes no interest in His creation. Rather, He is active and present in the world He has made. This means we are able, on some level, to experience God in our lives. One way we encounter Him is through nature. As Psalm 19:1-6 and Romans 1:20 affirm, when we stand in awe of creation, it is our spirit recognizing the reality of God.

Since we are spiritual beings, we will have moments when the Holy Spirit touches our hearts and minds. Consider the two disciples on the road to Emmaus in Luke 24:32 (NLT):
They said to each other, "Didn’t our hearts burn within us as he talked with us on the road and explained the Scriptures to us?"
After encountering Jesus, their hearts burned within them. Our own encounters with God can stir a similar response.

Testing Spiritual Experiences

A word of caution: Not every "burning heart" moment is an experience from God. While we should expect divine encounters, we must also remember the biblical warning to test the spirits (1 John 4:1). People are often led astray when they assume every spiritual experience is from God without measuring it against Scripture. The Bible remains our ultimate standard for discerning truth.

Two Purposes of Divine Encounters

According to Stanley Grenz, there are two primary reasons why God gives us these "burning heart" moments:

1. To Guide Our Self-Identity
   We need divine guidance to understand who we are and why we were created. Our search for truth and purpose is only complete when we allow God to direct us. True self-discovery happens in the light of His revelation.

2. To Form a Covenant People
   We don’t follow Jesus alone. God’s purpose in sending Jesus was not simply to save us from our individual sins but to form us into His people. The Church is built on the foundation of the prophets and apostles (Ephesians 2:20) and is meant to reflect God’s character in the world.

A Question for Reflection

What divine encounter has significantly transformed your life?

Grenz reminds us that these encounters are foundational to our identity as God’s people, and we should expect them. They are not necessarily mystical experiences but moments where God grabs our attention and transforms our lives. Whether through reading Scripture, singing worship songs, hiking a trail, or even watching a movie, God reveals important truths that shape our hearts and guide our lives.

Sharing the Blessing

These divine encounters are not for us alone; they are also for the benefit of God’s people. Since we are created for community, when God blesses us with truth, insight, or transformation, we are to use those blessings to strengthen the Church. We are called to share what God has given us to edify His people.

Conclusion: Transformed for a Purpose

In the end, our encounters with God are not isolated moments meant only for personal inspiration—they are meant to shape us and draw us deeper into community with His people. From the very beginning, God designed us to be relational, and His work in our lives always has a communal purpose. When we experience God—whether through Scripture, worship, nature, or the quiet stirrings of the Holy Spirit—He is not only revealing more of Himself to us but also shaping us into the kind of people who reflect His love and truth in the world.

As we journey in faith, may we remain open to these divine encounters, always testing them against Scripture and seeking God’s wisdom in how they shape our identity and calling. And most importantly, may we use what God teaches us not just for our own growth but to encourage, strengthen, and build up the Church.

So let’s return to the question: What divine encounter has significantly transformed your life?

Whatever it may be, may you embrace it as part of God’s greater plan—not just for you, but for His people. Let us be faithful stewards of what He reveals, sharing His love, wisdom, and grace with those around us so that together, we may stand as a covenant people, reflecting His glory in the world.

Theology and Our Relationship with God

"Hence, the reality of faith itself — our commitment to the God revealed in Christ — calls forth theological reflection." — Stanley Grenz, Theology for the Community of God (p. 1)

As a parent of school-aged children, I frequently confront the reality that, while assisting them with their homework, I struggle to remember what they are learning. More often than I’d like to admit, I find myself turning to Google in search of the correct answers.

This experience illustrates a crucial truth: our knowledge of the world is limited. It is constrained by what we have learned, what we can recall, and the information available to us. There is no one person who possesses comprehensive knowledge about everything. Indeed, even specialists in a given field have gaps in their understanding. These gaps encourage us to engage in deeper inquiry and study.

This is true for the most important of all areas of inquiry: God.

The Need for Theological Reflection

Too often, because our contemporary culture emphasizes the “relationship” aspect of God, we feel like the study of God makes that relationship all about intellectual knowledge. We figure that because it is like a relationship, we will learn what we need along the way, through our experience. Unfortunately, this reality has contributed to the American Church not fully understanding who God is and how He expects us to live.

In a typical interpersonal relationship, we come to know another person through shared experiences. These moments reveal their character and provide us ample opportunities to engage in conversation and ask questions. However, our relationship with God operates differently. The experiences we have with Him must be interpreted through the lens of Scripture. The Bible serves as our primary source for understanding both who God is and His will for the world. Part of nurturing our relationship with God involves dedicating time to study and meditate on the Bible, which helps us in truly knowing Him.

We Are All Theologians

Many of us do not identify as theologians. For much of my life, I viewed myself simply as a Bible student, with the academic discipline of theology seeming distant and inaccessible. We often perceive theology through an academic lens, characterized by complex terminology and intricate ideas. This perception can lead to the conclusion that theology is irrelevant to our relationship with God.

It is true that theology can feel out of reach and not practical to following Jesus, but that is not all theology is. At its core, the work of theology is the work of thinking well about God. Understanding that God is the Creator is the work of theology. Knowing that God is Trinity is also the work of theology. As we think through what the Bible says about God, we are engaged in the task of theology.

Since theology is thinking well about God, then we engage in theology whenever we ponder His nature, His works, or His will for our lives. It is important for us to remember that theology is not merely an academic pursuit for scholars in seminaries; it is a necessary discipline for every believer who desires to grow in their faith. To follow Jesus faithfully requires that we take time to deepen our understanding of God through study, reflection, and application.

The Foundation of Theology

The foundation for theology is always Scripture. While it is true that nature reflects the glory of God, it is Scripture alone that provides us with the information that we need to truly understand who God is. Reading, studying, and meditating on the Bible are important parts of theology; they provide the correct input we need to think well about God. Without a solid grounding in Scripture, our thoughts about God can easily be shaped by cultural assumptions, personal experiences, or misconceptions rather than by biblical truth.

Yet, theology is not merely an individual endeavor. The Church, both historically and presently, plays a crucial role in shaping our understanding of God. Throughout history, faithful believers have wrestled with Scripture, created doctrines, and provided insights that help us think rightly about God. Engaging with the teachings of the Church helps guard against error and deepens our understanding by connecting us with the wisdom of the faithful people who have gone before us.

Theology Leads to Transformation

The goal of theology is not merely learning more information but fostering a deeper love for God and maturing our faith. Jesus taught that the greatest commandment is to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, and mind (Matthew 22:37). Loving God with our mind implies engaging in the work of theology—seeking to know Him rightly so that we may worship Him more fully and live in obedience to His will.

When we neglect theology, we risk distorting our understanding of God and living according to a false perception of Him. A faith that is not grounded in truth is susceptible to error, doubt, and instability. However, when we commit ourselves to theological reflection, we equip ourselves with the knowledge necessary to discern truth and to stand firm in our faith.

Ultimately, theology is a pursuit that leads to transformation. As we grow in our knowledge of God, our hearts are strengthened in commitment, our lives better reflect the character of Jesus, and our purpose aligns with God’s heart. Theology is not just about thinking well; it is also about living well. It is about knowing God so that we might love Him more deeply and follow Him more faithfully.

Sunday Prayer: Produce the Fruit

Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT)

But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!

Heavenly Father,

Thank You for the gift of the Holy Spirit, who works within us to make us more like Jesus. Lord, my great desire is to bear the fruit that comes from being guided by the Spirit. Fill my heart with love, that I may love others as You have loved me. Let joy overflow in my life, even in trials, so that I may be a witness of Your goodness. Grant me perfect peace, calming the storms within me and helping me trust in Your will.

Teach me patience, Lord, in every situation and with every person, just as You are patient with me. May kindness and goodness flow from my words and actions, reflecting Your heart to the world. Strengthen my faithfulness, that I may walk in obedience and remain strong in my commitment to You.

Father, help me to be gentle in my responses, showing grace as You have shown grace to me. And give me self-control, that I may resist temptation and choose to live a life of holiness that reflects Your character in the world.

I surrender to the Holy Spirit’s work in my life. Shape me, mold me, and let my life bear fruit that glorifies You. In Jesus’ name, I pray.

Amen.

Living Out Holiness

1 Peter 1:13-16 (CSB)

Therefore, with your minds ready for action, be sober-minded and set your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. As obedient children, do not be conformed to the desires of your former ignorance. But as the one who called you is holy, you also are to be holy in all your conduct; for it is written, Be holy, because I am holy. 

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Have you ever paused to reflect on what it truly means to be holy? 

The apostle Peter’s words that we read in 1 Peter 1:13-16 provide us with guidance as we seek to live a holy life. What we see here is that holiness is both a command and a calling for every believer. 

Since being holy is such an important part of being a follower of Jesus, we need to understand what holiness actually is.

The simple definition I like to use for holiness is: To be separated from the ordinary. God is separated from the ordinary because He is the Creator, the very definition of Love and Goodness, and the only One worthy to be Worshipped. 

We are separated from the ordinary because of God’s saving work through Jesus. This means we have been set apart for a purpose: to Love God and to love people. The key thought behind holiness is the reality that God has set us apart from the rest of the world for His purposes. It is up to us to live that reality out in the world.

How do we go about doing that? This passage will help us understand how we can live as God’s holy people in the world.

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Prepare Your Minds

Peter begins with a call to action: “Therefore, with your minds ready for action, be sober-minded and set your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ.” (1 Peter 1:13, CSB).

This preparation involves more than just wishful thinking; it requires intentional focus. Our hope is anchored in the grace of King Jesus—a grace that not only saves but sustains us until his return. To set our hope fully on this grace, we must guard our minds against the lies, distortions, and distractions of the world.

How often do we allow our thoughts to be shaped by the noise of culture, rather than the truth of Scripture? This is why renewing our minds take intentional effort. We do this through prayer, worship, meditation on and study of Scripture, and loving those around us. These are the type of activities that help us align our hearts with God’s heart.

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Conduct Yourselves with Reverence

Peter continues, “As obedient children, do not be conformed to the desires of your former ignorance. But as the one who called you is holy, you also are to be holy in all your conduct” (1 Peter 1:14-15, CSB).

There was a time when we could have claimed to be ignorant of God and His ways. Once we put our faith in Jesus and following him that is no longer the case. We are to live as obedient children, because we know the character and will of our Heavenly Father.

The defining part of leaving behind ignorance and embracing obedience is holiness. It is true that we when we first start following Jesus we didn’t fully understand God’s will, but we understood that we are called to be different, to be separated from the ordinary. This changed our desire from trying to be part of the world to trying to honor King Jesus in what we said and did.

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Embrace God’s Call to Holiness

Finally, Peter reminds us of the ultimate standard: “for it is written, Be holy, because I am holy.” (1 Peter 1:16, CSB).

God doesn’t want us to be separate from the rest of the world just so we can be different. He wants us to be separate from the world because He is. He wants us to be holy because He is holy. We are created in His image to demonstrate His character in this world. The only way we can live out this original design is for us to be holy.

The only way we can be holy is to be dependent on God. This is what is means to be “poor in spirit.” We don’t have what it takes to be the people God created us to be, the only thing we can do is to trust Him. This is why prayer, Bible study and meditation, worship, and being part of a Christian community are vital parts of living a holy life. We can’t do it on our own.

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Putting Holiness into Action

Take a moment to reflect: Are there areas in your life where holiness has taken a backseat? Perhaps it’s in your thought life, your habits, or your relationships. This is part of being holy, it is evaluating our lives and discovering those areas that still need to be brought under the guidance of the Holy Spirit. 

Holiness is not about perfection; it’s about progress. It’s a daily journey of becoming more like Jesus. Commit to that journey today, relying on God’s grace and strength every step of the way.

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Final Thoughts

Living out holiness isn’t just a command; it’s a calling that transforms every aspect of our lives. As we prepare our minds, conduct ourselves with reverence, and embrace God’s call, we’re reminded that holiness is ultimately about reflecting the character of God in this world. It is one of the ways people will witness God in their lives.

Holiness is a crucial part of living as a disciple of Jesus. It gives us a path to travel and it allows us to show the world around us that there is a better way to live.

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What are your thoughts on holiness? Share your reflections in the comments below—I’d love to hear how God is working in your life.

Redefining Purpose

Many, if not all of us, have a sense that we were made for more. That we were created to do something great that will change the world, or at least make a difference in the lives of a few people. We don’t want our lives be meaningless.

This is why we frequently hear messages about pursuing our dreams and following our hearts. Those are the messages that we want to hear. American culture, even within the church, promotes the idea that a fulfilled life comes from doing what we are passionate about—chasing our "God-given dreams" and living a life of success, influence, and happiness.

But what if purpose isn’t about chasing a dream? What if it’s about something deeper—something unshakable?

To answer this, we must first ask: What is purpose?

At its core, purpose is about our why—our primary motivation for living. It helps us make sense of life and determine how to best use our time, talents, and opportunities. But does the world's definition align with God’s?

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Worldly Definitions of Purpose

A Performance-Based View of Purpose

In today’s culture, the idea of finding your purpose is often tied to personal fulfillment. People are encouraged to search for their true calling, chase their dreams, and to do what they are passionate about. There is no doubt that meaningful work is a blessing, this mindset can also be misleading because it equates purpose with success, status, or self-fulfillment—luxuries that not everyone can afford.

From a young age, we are conditioned to believe that purpose is something we must discover and achieve. We hear motivational phrases like:

• “Follow your passion, and you’ll never work a day in your life.”
• “When you cease to dream you cease to live.”
• “Dreams are the fuel that ignites the fire of possibility.”

These thoughts may be inspiring, but they can also create unrealistic expectations. Not everyone has a single, lifelong passion or a clear career path that feels like their "one true calling." Many people struggle with uncertainty, transition, or simply working to provide for their families. Does that mean they lack purpose?

The Anxiety of Chasing Purpose

When purpose is defined by following your dreams or living with a passion, it leads to unnecessary stress when that is not your experience. Rather than discovering their purpose, many people will experience:

• Doubt – “Do I have a dream worth following?”
• Disappointment – “Every time I think life is going to turn around for me the other shoe drops.”
• Comparison – “Others seem to be living their dream—why am I struggling?”

Rather than bringing joy, the pursuit of purpose often brings with it anxiety and depression, making people feel like they are being left behind or missing out on something bigger.

The Pressure to Define Ourselves by What We Do

We all know that our American culture equates identity with career and achievements. When someone asks, “What do you do?” they are often really asking, “Who are you?” This places enormous pressure on people to define themselves by their accomplishments rather than their character or faithfulness.

I know I struggled with this when I was baking bagels in Iowa City, unable to find a paid pastoral position. I constantly battled feelings of failure and inadequacy. I had based my identity and purpose so much on being a pastor that when I wasn’t in that role, I felt like I was wasting my life.

Looking back, I now see how God used that time in my life to refine my character and reshape my understanding of purpose.

What Happens When Circumstances Change?

If our purpose is tied to what we do or what we can achieve, then what happens when life takes an unexpected turn?

• What if you lose your job?
• What if your dreams shift or don’t work out?
• What if your season of life demands something different from what you planned?

When purpose is defined by success, failure or change can make us feel like we’ve lost our identity.

Shifting the Focus

The world’s definition of purpose is rooted in following your dreams and trying to accomplish something great, but this approach often leads to frustration, disappointment, and anxiety. Instead of purpose being about our fulfillment and success, Scripture teaches that our purpose is found in something different—faithfulness to God.

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The Biblical Definition of Purpose

The world often tells us that purpose about what we do—chasing our dreams, the difference we make, or the impact we have on other people. However, Scripture paints a different picture. Instead of tying purpose to achievement, the Bible consistently defines it in terms of faithfulness to God. Our purpose is not found in what we accomplish but in how we live in obedience to Him.

Purpose Is Rooted in Faithfulness, Not Success

Rather than centering purpose on self-fulfillment, Scripture calls us to live in a way that reflects God’s heart and character in all the various circumstances of life. Consider these key verses:

Micah 6:8

"Mankind, he has told each of you what is good and what it is the LORD requires of you: to act justly, to love faithfulness, and to walk humbly with your God."

• God makes it clear that our purpose isn’t about chasing grand achievements but about living with justice, mercy, and humility.
• Success means little if we neglect those around us who are struggling. Purpose is about using what we have to make a difference.
• True purpose requires walking humbly with God—aligning with His values and will rather than our own ambitions.

Galatians 2:20

"I have been crucified with Christ, and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me."

• Our ultimate purpose is not about us but about Jesus living through us.
• We are called to live with love, hope, and truth, showing the world that there is a better way.
• True purpose is found in surrender—allowing Jesus to shape our desires, decisions, and daily lives.

Colossians 3:17

"And whatever you do, in word or in deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him."

• This verse doesn’t limit purpose to a specific job or calling. Instead, whatever we do should be done in a way that honors Jesus.
• Our loyalty to Christ is seen in how we live and represent Him in our daily lives.
• This is the purpose for every Christian—we represent King Jesus in everything we say and do.

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A Shift in Perspective: From Doing to Being

These verses challenge the common idea that purpose is about what we do. Instead, they emphasize how we live. Purpose is less about a grand mission to change the world and more about a daily posture of obedience, love, and faithfulness.

• Instead of asking, “What should I do with my life?” we should ask, “How can I honor God in whatever I do?”
• Instead of trying to follow our hearts, we should focus on being faithful wherever God has placed us.

Living with Purpose in Every Season

This biblical view of purpose brings incredible freedom. If purpose is tied to a specific job, talent, or opportunity, then our sense of meaning is fragile—it can be lost when circumstances change. But if our purpose is found in living faithfully before God, then we can live with purpose whether we are:

• Working in a career we love or in a job that simply provides for our needs.
• In a time of growth or a time of waiting.
• Serving in a big, visible way or in quiet, unseen way.

No moment is wasted when our purpose is to walk humbly with God and to be faithful to Him in every circumstance of our lives.

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Conclusion: Purpose Is About Faithfulness

The biblical definition of purpose removes the pressure to “figure it all out” and instead calls us to trust God, love others, and live for His glory. No matter where we are or what we do, our purpose remains the same:

To act justly, love faithfulness, and walk humbly with our God.

Living with a Pure Heart

 

Introduction

Imagine you’re in your early 20s, just going through the motions of life, when—out of nowhere—everything changes. That’s what happened to James. He wasn’t looking for God, but one night, after following a friend to a church service, he had an encounter with Jesus that turned his world upside down. It wasn’t just emotional or intellectual—it was real. He described it as feeling cleansed, awakened, and more alive than ever before.

James embraced his new faith with enthusiasm. He prayed, worshiped, read his Bible, and let go of his old, destructive habits. He knew that God loved him, that Jesus had died for him, and that one day, he would spend eternity in heaven. But after the excitement settled, he found himself facing a question that many believers wrestle with: What am I here for now?

He knew salvation wasn’t just about waiting for heaven. He saw others in the church following strict rules, but that didn’t seem to match the grace he had received. He heard that some were called to ministry, but he wasn’t sure if that was for him. Meanwhile, he was finishing his doctorate in computer science—was that part of his Christian life or just a side note? Was his faith only about getting saved and helping others do the same, or was there something more?

This is where many Christians find themselves—saved, but unsure of what comes after belief.

And here’s the answer: God didn’t just save us from something; He saved us for something. Our purpose is not just to get to heaven but to be transformed into the people He created us to be. Romans 8:29 tells us that God’s goal is to conform us to the image of His Son. In other words, the Christian life is about character—becoming more like Jesus in everything we do, whether in ministry, the workplace, or our daily interactions.

The question isn’t just, “What am I saved from?” but “What am I being shaped into?” Because the purpose of life isn’t just salvation—it’s transformation. (Adapted from After You Believe, N. T. Wright, pp. 1-3.)

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The Heart of the Kingdom

In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus teaches what it means to be a citizen of the Kingdom of Heaven. We can make Kingdom citizenship all about following certain laws, believing that our righteousness is defined both by the spiritual things we do and the worldly things we avoid. However, our actions are only part of the story. What really matters is our heart—what we think, how we feel, and what we desire. These things influence the way we live.

Jesus taught that Kingdom citizens embrace values such as humility, meekness, and a hunger for righteousness. These values shape our mission: to influence the world for the Kingdom by being salt and light. To do that, we must live righteous lives—not just obeying the Law but being transformed from the inside out. Our motivations matter.

Looking forward, we must ask, Who am I when no one is watching? As N.T. Wright puts it, “When you’re suddenly put to the test and don’t have time to think about how you’re coming across, your real nature will come out. That’s why character needs to go all the way through: Whatever fills you will spill out. And it’s up to you to do something about it.”(After You Believe, p. 28.) Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 5:27-37 addresses how our thoughts, desires, and integrity reveal the true condition of our hearts.

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Jesus’ Teachings on a Pure Heart

1. Purity Begins in the Heart (Matthew 5:27–28)

Jesus affirms the commandment against adultery but he takes it further—lustful thoughts are equivalent to adultery in God’s eyes. The issue is not mere attraction but dwelling thoughts and desires that take our hearts and minds in directions they are not intended to go. Lustful thoughts are sinful because:

• They defile marriage, even for those not married. Sex is reserved for marriage, and to place it anywhere else, even in our thoughts, dishonors God’s design for both marriage and sexuality.

• They reduce people to objects for self-gratification. Every person is created in God’s image and deserves honor and respect.

• They misuse God’s gift of imagination and reflection. Our minds are capable of creativity, problem-solving, and meditation. Paul instructs us in Philippians 4:8 to think about good things. Lust corrupts this gift.

We need to realize that lust is not some loophole for us to have some fun without actually sinning. Jesus taught that it is a serious issue that needs to be addressed. Examine your thought life and take steps to guard your mind.

2. Taking Radical Measures (Matthew 5:29–30)

Jesus uses hyperbole to emphasize the seriousness of sin—if something causes you to stumble, remove it. While not literal, this highlights the need for drastic action against temptation. The image Jesus presents is that of a resurrected body bearing the evidence of the struggle against sin rather than going to hell with whole body.

Lust may seem like a private sin, but Jesus teaches that it requires serious action. Filters and accountability help, but even a blind handless man can still lust. Since we live in a world full of temptation we need to have our hearts transformed. Pursue spiritual disciplines—prayer, meditation, and Scripture—to reorient your desires. One of the places to begin is this prayer from John Eldredge: Prayer for Sexual Healing. 

3. Honoring the Sanctity of Marriage (Matthew 5:31–32)

Jewish law permitted divorce, with rabbinical debates on what made divorce allowable. Some were lenient, others strict. What was the real issue? For Jesus the real issue wasn’t the justifiable reasons for divorce, but the sacredness of marriage. Marriage is to represent God’s covenant love for His people. Therefore divorce distorts the reflection of God’s faithfulness that is to be expressed through marriage.

Jesus isn’t entering into the divorce debate of his day, but rather he is emphasizing the fact that marriage is a sacred covenant that needs to be honored. Whether married, single, or divorced, we are all called to uphold the sanctity of marriage.

4. Integrity in Speech (Matthew 5:33–37)

In Jesus’ time, people swore oaths to manipulate trust. Some Jews would swear by God’s name, but most, in order to keep God’s name holy, would use substitutes that were connected with God (heaven, earth, Jerusalem). Jesus teaches that Kingdom citizens should be people of integrity, whose “yes” means yes and “no” means no. We already bear God’s name and act as His representatives, and because of this our word should be enough. 

Integrity matters. Let your words reflect God’s faithfulness. If you make a promise, keep it. A life of integrity mirrors the character of Christ.

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Conclusion

Jesus calls us to a righteousness greater than the Pharisees—not through stricter rule-keeping but through heart transformation. This means:

• Taking decisive action against sin.

• Pursuing purity in thought and deed.

• Honoring commitments in marriage and relationships.

• Being trustworthy and truthful in all we say and do.

This requires self-examination. Where does your heart need help? Don’t be content with salvation alone—desire a heart continually transformed into the image of Jesus, reflecting His love, compassion, mercy, and integrity.

Challenge: Take time this week to examine your heart. Where do you need transformation? Pray, surrender, and trust that God, who began a good work in you, will carry it to completion (Philippians 1:6).

Let God reshape your heart to reflect His purity, love, and integrity.

Philosophy of Discipleship

What is a disciple? A disciple is someone who is passionately committed to becoming more like Jesus Christ.

Jesus said:

"Students are not greater than their teacher, and slaves are not greater than their master. Students are to be like their teacher, and slaves are to be like their master" (Matthew 10:24-25a, NLT).

Similarly, the apostle John wrote:

"Those who say they live in God should live their lives as Jesus did" (1 John 2:6, NLT).

Being a disciple is not merely about learning correct doctrine; it’s about embodying it through action and adjusting our lives to reflect Jesus.

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The Role of a Disciple in the Church

Disciples are the heartbeat of the local church. They provide the service, sacrifice, and leadership that make ministry possible. Disciples pray regularly for the church family and for individuals, showing genuine care for others. They seek opportunities to share Christ’s love with non-believers and provide the wisdom and guidance that help the church community fulfill its mission. Most importantly, disciples serve as examples for others to follow. A healthy church is built on mature, dedicated disciples who demonstrate what it means to live as a follower of Jesus.

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What is Discipleship?

Discipleship is the intentional process of forming disciples. Jesus left the church with a clear mandate:

"Therefore, go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you" (Matthew 28:19-20a, NLT).

This task of making disciples doesn’t happen by accident—it requires intentionality and planning. While the methods may vary across church communities, one thing remains constant: discipleship is essential to a thriving, vibrant church.

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The Role of Discipleship in the Church

Discipleship is the most vital ministry of the church. It ensures the ongoing health of the church community and empowers the church to impact its surrounding culture. While some individuals grow in faith through personal discipline, most of us need guidance, encouragement, and accountability to continue maturing. Discipleship provides that essential structure, helping believers grow and develop, thereby strengthening the church as a whole.

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My Philosophy of Discipleship

The mission of the church is to make disciples—this is what Jesus called us to do (Matthew 28:18-20). Discipleship must be a top priority for every church family. In examining Jesus' ministry, we can identify three essential components for any discipleship program:

1. Discipleship is Founded on Prayer

Luke’s gospel shows us that Jesus prayed before selecting His twelve apostles (Luke 6:12-13). In John’s gospel, we see Jesus praying for His disciples on the night of His betrayal (John 17:1-26). Prayer is foundational for discipleship because it connects us with God’s will and empowers us for ministry. Discipleship begins and thrives in an atmosphere of prayer.

2. Discipleship Happens Through Teaching

Jesus’ ministry was primarily one of teaching (Matthew 4:23). Faith begins with knowledge, and knowledge is passed on through teaching. To become like Jesus, people must first learn how Jesus lived and what He expects of us. A healthy discipleship program will offer both personal and group study opportunities to learn God’s Word. For believers to align their lives with God’s will, they must first understand what that will is.

3. Discipleship Results in Ministry

At a certain point, Jesus sent His disciples out to do ministry. Luke 9:1-6 describes how Jesus sent out the Twelve to preach and heal, and in Luke 10:1-16, He sent out seventy-two others to carry out His mission. Ministry is where disciples experience God at work in and through their lives. A strong discipleship program will provide opportunities for people to serve—both within the church and in the community. By engaging in ministry, disciples put their faith into action and live out God’s will.

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Additional Principles for Effective Discipleship: Faith and Patience

While prayer, teaching, and ministry are essential, two additional principles are crucial for effective discipleship: faith and patience. We must trust that, as we commit to the discipleship process, the Holy Spirit is working in people’s lives, even when we can’t immediately see the results. Patience is key, as spiritual growth rarely happens overnight. It took three years for Jesus to prepare His group of disciples to lead the early church, and we can’t expect overnight transformations. We must trust God’s timing and remain committed to the process, knowing that He is faithfully at work.

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By committing to these principles—prayer, teaching, ministry, faith, and patience—the church can fulfill its mission of making disciples and nurturing a thriving, spiritually healthy community.

The Journey of Christian Spiritual Formation

 Spiritual formation in Christ is a deliberate and structured journey. While God can work through chaos, He has chosen to engage with us through intentional and clear pathways. Instead of passively wondering what God is up to in our lives, we are called to embrace the means He has provided for our growth. These pathways are revealed in Scripture, particularly through the life and teachings of Jesus Christ.

Life in our modern American culture is fast and busy. Since it is easy to have a full schedule it is tempting to “go with the flow.” This path of least resistance requires little effort but allows our culture to be the greatest influence in our spiritual formation. Many Christians struggle with spiritual maturity because we allow ourselves to drift instead of actively engaging the means to become more like Jesus.

Even so, God is gracious. He brings healing and transformation to our lives, even when we fail to fully engage in the process of our own spiritual development. This is a profound reminder of His goodness and love toward us, even in our shortcomings.

One challenge in discussing spiritual formation is the fear of being misunderstood as promoting “salvation by works.” This often leads to an emphasis on faith, which can, unfortunately, be reduced to intellectual agreement to doctrine and adherence to a certain moral standard. While truth is essential, faith is far more than believing the right things.

Biblical faith is defined by trust, commitment, and obedience—qualities that are reflected in how we live. Spiritual formation, then, is an active process that is to result in good works. These works are the fruit of genuine faith.

The journey of spiritual formation has a clear starting point: repentance. Jesus emphasized repentance throughout His ministry. In Matthew 4:17 (NLT), He declared, “Repent of your sins and turn to God, for the Kingdom of Heaven is near.”

Repentance is not just feeling regret or making a confession; it is a true shift in our loyalties. Sin is rebellion against God and His Kingdom, and through repentance, we consciously change our allegiance. This act of turning away from the world and turning to God signifies a new loyalty—a declaration of citizenship in the Kingdom of Heaven.

True repentance is foundational to spiritual formation. It is not merely a formality but an act of faith: a decision to trust, commit, and obey God. From this starting point, our journey begins, and as we continue, God works within us to transform us into the likeness of King Jesus.

As we pursue spiritual formation, it is crucial that we remain both intentional and humble, allowing God to guide us. The process may be challenging, but it is the path to becoming who we were created to be in King Jesus—a journey of purpose, growth, and grace.

Parenting in a Digital World: Digital Relationships & Online Safety

 As we conclude our Parenting in a Digital World series, let’s take a moment to reflect on what we’ve learned so far:

1. Parenting Principles in a Digital Age
   Protect, guide, and empower our children to use technology responsibly.
2. Discovering Our “Why”
   Digital parenting matters because our children’s well-being matters.
3. Building a Family Digital Culture
   Establishing healthy boundaries fosters stronger relationships.
4. Avoiding Inappropriate Content
   Utilizing parental controls and open communication helps protect children from harmful exposure.
5. Protecting Mental Health
   Limiting screen time and encouraging offline activities fosters emotional well-being.

Parenting in the digital world is not easy—it takes intentional action to help our children mature into emotionally healthy and productive individuals. As Christians, we view this responsibility as part of the discipleship of our children.

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One Reality of the Online World

The online world offers the exciting possibility of meeting new people and forming relationships. However, it is also filled with potential dangers and pitfalls. It’s crucial to understand both the positive and risky aspects of digital relationships.

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Understanding Digital Relationships

Navigating the digital world means understanding the nuances of modern relationships. Let’s dive into the key aspects:

1. Online Friends vs. Real Friends

• Online Friendships Can Feel Meaningful but Often Lack Real-World Depth:
  Today’s children and teens easily form friendships through social media, gaming, and chat platforms. While these relationships can provide emotional support and a sense of belonging, they might lack the depth that comes from face-to-face interactions. Digital connections often miss out on the subtle cues—like body language and tone—that are essential for truly supportive and reliable relationships.

• Social Media Creates an Illusion of Closeness, But True Friendships Require Accountability and Shared Experiences:
  The constant flow of messages and updates can make online interactions feel intimate, yet the lack of physical presence often means less accountability. Real friendships thrive on shared experiences, mutual trust, and the understanding that comes when friends spend time together in person. This connection fosters deeper bonds and helps navigate conflicts more effectively.

• Key Question: Would This Person Be in Your Life Without a Screen?
  This thought-provoking question encourages both parents and children to reflect on the authenticity of their digital relationships. Are these friendships based solely on online interactions, or would they remain significant in a non-digital context?

2. Social Comparison & Peer Pressure

• Social Media Highlights Only the Best Moments, Leading to Unrealistic Comparisons:
  Platforms like Instagram and Facebook showcase only the highlights of someone’s life—moments of success and joy—creating a distorted view that can lead children and teens to compare their everyday lives unfavorably.

• Validation from Likes and Comments Can Impact Self-Esteem:
  In the digital age, social validation is often measured by likes, comments, and shares. When the anticipated response is not received, it can result in feelings of inadequacy or rejection, adversely affecting self-esteem and mental health.

• Healthy Habits:
  Encourage real-life interactions, hobbies, and critical thinking about online portrayals. Help your children see beyond the “highlight reel” and appreciate that real life is multifaceted and complex.

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The Dangers of Digital Relationships

While digital connections offer many benefits, they also come with risks. Here are some of the key dangers and how to address them:

1. Cyberbullying

• Occurs on Social Media, Gaming Platforms, and Group Chats:
  Cyberbullying can manifest across various digital channels—from hurtful comments on social media to targeted harassment in online gaming and group chats.

• Signs Include Withdrawal from Social Interactions and Emotional Distress:
  Children experiencing cyberbullying might withdraw from both online and offline social interactions, become unusually quiet after using their devices, or display sudden mood changes such as increased anxiety or sadness. Early recognition of these signs is crucial.

• Parental Strategies:

  • Open Communication: Let your child know they can come to you if they encounter negativity online.
  • Blocking/Reporting: Teach them to block or report abusive behavior.
  • Promoting Respectful Online Behavior: Reinforce the importance of kindness and respect in digital interactions.

2. Online Predators & Grooming

• Predators Use Fake Identities, Secrecy, and Flattery to Manipulate Children:
  Online predators often create fake profiles to gain the trust of unsuspecting children. They may shower kids with compliments, gifts, or attention to slowly build a relationship that can turn dangerous.

• Warning Signs:

  • Requests for personal information
  • Encouraging secret conversations
  • Suggesting in-person meetups

• Prevention Tips:

  • Educate Your Children: Teach them about the risks of sharing personal information online.
  • Use Parental Controls: Limit their exposure to unsafe platforms.
  • Monitor Online Interactions: Regular check-ins can ensure your child is navigating the digital world safely.

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Practical Steps for Online Safety

Creating a secure online environment for your children involves both technological tools and proactive communication. Here are some practical steps every family can implement:

1. Parental Controls & Monitoring

• Leveraging Built-In Settings and Tools:
  Modern devices come equipped with robust parental control features. Tools like Bark, Qustodio, and Covenant Eyes help filter inappropriate content, set screen time limits, and monitor online interactions.

• Balancing Oversight with Trust:
  While it’s important to monitor your child’s digital activity, explain why these controls are in place and involve them in setting appropriate limits. This transparency fosters trust while keeping them safe.

2. Safe Browsing & Online Behavior

• Identifying Online Threats:
  Educate your children about common tactics used in scams, phishing, and fake profiles. Teach them to recognize suspicious links, verify website authenticity, and avoid sharing personal information with unverified sources.

• Understanding What to Share:
  Help your children differentiate between safe and unsafe information to share online. Discuss which personal details (like full names, addresses, or travel plans) should remain private and emphasize the importance of protecting sensitive information.

3. Family Digital Contract

• Setting Clear Expectations:
  A Family Digital Contract is a collaborative agreement that outlines the rules for online behavior, screen time, and safety. It ensures that everyone in the household understands their responsibilities and the boundaries necessary for a safe digital environment.

• Regular Reviews and Updates:
  As technology evolves, so should your family’s digital rules. Set aside time periodically—perhaps every few months—to review and update the contract, reinforcing that digital safety is a shared responsibility.

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Key Takeaways

1. Help Children Distinguish Between Online and Real-Life Relationships
   Not all connections made online have the same depth or reliability as those formed in person. Encourage your child to ask whether a friend would still be significant without the digital screen as a barrier, fostering a balanced perspective.

2. Recognize and Prevent Digital Dangers Like Cyberbullying and Online Predators
   Awareness is the first step in safeguarding your child. Teach them to identify signs of cyberbullying and understand the tactics of online predators. Equip them with strategies like blocking or reporting abusive behavior and maintaining privacy with personal details.

3. Model and Enforce Safe Online Habits Through Parental Controls and Open Discussions
   Your actions set the stage for your child’s digital behavior. Model safe online habits by practicing thoughtful posting, respectful communication, and mindful sharing. Use parental controls alongside open, honest discussions about why these measures are necessary. Involving your child in setting up a Family Digital Contract reinforces the importance of boundaries and shared responsibility.

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Final Thought

By continuing these conversations and implementing practical strategies, we empower our children to navigate the digital world with wisdom and confidence. This ongoing dialogue not only builds their awareness but also instills a sense of responsibility that will serve them well as they grow and engage in an increasingly digital society.

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Thank you for joining me on this journey through the complexities of digital parenting. Let’s continue to support and guide our children as they learn to thrive in both the digital and real worlds.

— Paul