Dreaming is part of what makes us human.
I dream of writing a book, getting into shape, and going on camping adventures.
There are many things that I would like to accomplish in life, but when I examine my life I realize that time continues to move forward while my dreams gradually fade away.
Too often it feels like life, quiet literally, is passing me by.
I assume that the same is true with you?
Sure your dreams are different, but you too have moments when you feel like the life you have is not the life you want. You want your life to count for something and you long to be part of something special, but now time is running out.
Apparently our dreams come with an expiration date.
Why does life seem to gradually slip away?
I believe it is because of the choices that we make.
I am not talking about choices between good and evil, but about how we choose to use our time.
Erwin McManus wrote:
“This may sound too simple, but the abundant life that Jesus promises is ushered in through the choices we make in the ordinary moments of life.” (Seizing Your Divine Moment, p. 35)
Each day we are given 24 hours to use at our discretion.
It is true that a large part of that time is taken up by our responsibilities. There are clothes that need to be washed, meals that need to be prepared, jobs that need to completed, and children who need to be loved.
Yet, even with all our responsibilities we still seem to find time to watch Netflix, scroll through our Facebook feeds, and create awesome images of Instagram.
Since busyness is a badge of honor in our culture, we will declare to the world how busy we are, but the reality is we are able to find time to do the things we want to do.
In those moments when we get to choose what we want to do, how do we use our time?
I am afraid that too often I end up wasting my time. I scroll through Twitter, listen to podcasts, or play a game on my iPad. Rather than doing something productive I choose to entertain myself.
In the process I squander the moments of life. These moments turn into days, which turn into weeks, which turn into months, which turn into years.
It is important to remember: A moment may not seem like a big deal, but a moment is all that is needed to change the course of our lives.
Again I like what Erwin McManus wrote in Seizing Your Divine Moment:
“The present moment is where the past and the future collide, and within a moment there is monumental potential. That’s the mystery of a moment. It is small enough to ignore and big enough to change your life forever. Life is the sum total of what you do with the moments given you.” (p. 18)
When we choose the path of least resistance, we miss out on the life God created us to live.
There will come a time in your life when you look back and wonder:
Where has my life gone?
So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do. (Ephesians 5:15-17; NLT)
We are to be good stewards of the moments God has given to us.
To live carefully has very little to do with taking safety precautions and has everything to do with how we choose to use our time.
The apostle Paul wants us to be wise in our use of time.
Time is our most precious commodity, it is even more valuable than money. You can use time to earn money, but you can't use money to buy more time.
Time is also valuable because our lives are determined by the way we decide to use the ordinary moments of life. When we consistently use the ordinary moments of life to follow Jesus, sooner or later we realize, much to our amazement, that we are living the abundant life he promised us.
Here is the question I want to leave you with: How intentional are you in how you use your time?
The good news is that it is not too late to become a good steward of the ordinary moments of our lives.
Don't look back on your life with regret, but look forward with hope.
