It is never easy to admit that we have made a mistake.
The bigger the mistake the more we want to hide it, deny it, or ignore it.
It is no wonder that we have a hard time confessing our sin, even in our private prayers to God. The result is that we carry around a complex baggage of guilt, shame, temptation, and habitual sin. This reality makes it difficult to accept God’s promise of forgiveness.
I know that I find it hard to confess my sins to God because I am embarrassed about what my sin reveals about my weakness.
After all I should know better!
“If I truly had faith,” I reason, “this sin wouldn’t be a problem.”
As a result I keep my distance from God. I don’t want to be weak faithless fool before Him.
Perhaps you struggle with asking for forgiveness because you are afraid of God.
There is a voice inside of your mind telling you that if you confess your sins to God then He will punish you.
“After all,” you think, “isn’t God going to judge lawbreakers?”
In his book Created to Be God’s Friend, Henry Blackaby wrote:
Faith is lived out through trust.
The question we need to ask ourselves is this: Do I trust God to forgive me?
If we don’t trust God to forgive then we won’t turn to Him and confess our sins.
Instead we will run away and hide. We will ignore the sin that is ruining our lives. We will do every thing we can think of to avoid God.
For us to trust people we have to believe that they have our best interest at heart.
This means we need to answer this question: Is there any reason why we should trust God to forgive us?
The reason we can trust God is Jesus.
The life, death, and resurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ is the evidence we need to trust that God will forgive us. This is true, no matter who we are or what we have done.
The writer of the book of Hebrews gave us this gem of truth:
How do we come before the throne of God?
First, it requires our surrender to Jesus Christ as Lord. If we are not willing to be a follower of Jesus it is impossible for us to experience God’s gift of forgiveness. Jesus is the High Priest who has prepared the way to God. There is no other way to forgiveness except through Jesus.
Second, we need to confess our sins to God through prayer. God knows our sins, and He has declared His willingness to forgive. Yet, forgiveness requires the acknowledgement that we have done something wrong. This is an act of trust, because we need to believe that God has our best interest at heart. So we confess our sin because we trust that God will forgive us.
Third, we need to worship God. From singing praise songs to serving people in need, it is important that we set our hearts towards God. Worship requires the right motivation more than it requires the right actions. We can go through the motions of worship without love and trust. Worship that is grounded in faith is the type of worship that God desires from us.
Living in these bodies of flesh in this world means that sin will be a part of our lives.
Not only do we need constantly struggle with sin to eliminate it from our lives, we also have to trust God to forgive us when we sin.
God is gracious and willing to forgive us, but we need to turn to Him and ask for it.
Trust God to forgive you.